Bachelor in ParadiseStars Abigail Heringer and Noah Erb Marry in 'Gatsby' Garden Wedding in Tulsa! (Exclusive)

Mar. 15, 2025

Abigail HeringerandNoah Erbhave tied the knot!

The former reality stars, who met while filming season 7 ofBachelor in Paradisein 2021, married on Monday, Oct. 7, at thePhilbrook Museum of Artin Tulsa, Oklahoma. The couple tells PEOPLE the city — where they live together now and where Erb, 29, grew up — was “a clear choice” for their wedding location because they have made “countless memories” — beginning with the very early days of their relationship.

“From secret date nights when we were in hiding duringBachelor in Paradiseto now putting down roots in our new home, Tulsa has always been so special to us,” Heringer, 29, says, referring to keeping their budding romance under wraps while the reality show was airing.

Abigail Heringer and Noah Erb married on Monday, Oct. 7, at the Philbrook Museum of Art in Tulsa, Oklahoma.Lauren Rader

Lauren Rader

The couple quickly landed on the Philbrook — once the former home of Oklahoma oil tycoon Waite Phillips and his wife Genevieve — for their venue. The property features a 1920s Italian renaissance-style villa nestled on 25 acres of formal and informal gardens.

“It is an absolutely stunning venue,” Heringer notes. “We felt like it was a perfect way to showcase Tulsa’s beauty to our out-of-town friends and family.”

When planning their big day — with help fromEver & Ivy Events— Heringer and Erb’s top priority was keeping things simple and fuss-free so they could be present in the moment and fully enjoy the experience with their loved ones. “Noah and I always knew we wanted our wedding to focus more on the quality time with our guests, with minimal wedding traditions involved,” Heringer explains.

Erb adds that they wanted the wedding to feel “low-key” and “just let things flow naturally.”

“We don’t do well with a structured timeline, and I know that would stress me out,” he explains, joking that he would have been perfectly fine with eloping. “I’m cool with running away with just her, and there’s not a huge thing around it.”

The pair — whogot engagedin August 2023 in San Diego — threw a three-day wedding celebration that kicked off on Saturday, Oct. 5, with an informal “couples shower” at their house in Tulsa. It was an opportunity to not only welcome their guests to the city, but show off the home they have spent the last year working on.

On Sunday, Oct. 6, Heringer and Erb hosted their rehearsal dinner and a more formal welcome party atThe Mayo Hotelin downtown Tulsa.

The couple’s German Shepherd, Maki, also joined in the ceremony. “We couldn’t imagine the day without him,” Heringer says of the dog.

Makeup artistMegan Prateroversaw her bridal glam, whileChelsea Berginstyled her hair.

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For the reception, Heringer changed intoKate Willa’s Roj gown, a strapless column design featuring sheer French lace with hand-beading of pearls and cream sequins. “The dress just fit the atmosphere and history of our venue,” Heringer notes. “It’s romantic, fun, sparkly and everything I wanted out of my second dress.”

Monday, Oct. 7, at the Philbrook Museum of Art in Tulsa, Oklahoma.Lauren Rader

Delicious food was particularly important for Erb. “We went overboard on food, as I knew that would be the moment [during the wedding] where I’m like, ‘This is good. This is it. This is how it should be. We got it done. Now we can just celebrate,’ " he says.

“We wanted to go somewhere quiet, where we could just fall off the map after the stress of wedding planning and my book tour,” explains Heringer, whosememoirThe Deaf Girlwas released on Sept. 10. “I’m so excited to just cozy up, explore Jackson Hole and Yellowstone park and have chill nights at our Airbnb.”

“We’ll do it next year,” Erb promises of their Asian adventure.

Eventually, the couple tells PEOPLE, they hope to start a family. “I say no more than four, five [kids]. We’ll see how it goes,” Heringer says, before jokingly adding, “But we’re not doing 10!” in reference to Erb being one of 11 kids in his family.

In the meantime, they are both simply looking forward to settling into married life and having a forever partner in each other. “We’re excited to share our days with someone who knows us inside and out and chooses us every day,” Heringer says.

Abigial heringer, Noah Erb wedding.Lauren Rader

“We cherish every day of our relationship and are excited about spending the rest of our lives together,” she continues. “Marriage means sharing our lives, supporting each other and continuing to grow together in this amazing journey.”

PEOPLE and BRIDES are teaming up to share all the biggest moments from Abigail Heringer and Noah Erb’s dream wedding day. Stay tuned toPeople.comandBrides.comfor all the exclusive photos and details.

CreditsWedding PlannerEver & Ivy EventsVenuePhilbrook Museum of ArtInvitationsMintedPhotographerLauren RaderVideographerMegan ReevesFloristEmerald & OliveCatererProssimo RistoranteBartendersFig & FoundryRentalsParty Perfect and Marianne’sBandKing Cabbage Brass BandHairChelsea BerginMakeupMegan PraterWedding DressNetta BenShabu at Jaxon JamesReceptionDress Kate WillaGroom’s SuitDon MorphyRingsKeyzarStringsErica ParkerLightingLIT Landscape LightingFurniture and DecorStay Gold Event Rentals

Credits

Wedding PlannerEver & Ivy EventsVenuePhilbrook Museum of ArtInvitationsMintedPhotographerLauren RaderVideographerMegan ReevesFloristEmerald & OliveCatererProssimo RistoranteBartendersFig & FoundryRentalsParty Perfect and Marianne’sBandKing Cabbage Brass BandHairChelsea BerginMakeupMegan PraterWedding DressNetta BenShabu at Jaxon JamesReceptionDress Kate WillaGroom’s SuitDon MorphyRingsKeyzarStringsErica ParkerLightingLIT Landscape LightingFurniture and DecorStay Gold Event Rentals

Wedding PlannerEver & Ivy Events

VenuePhilbrook Museum of Art

InvitationsMinted

PhotographerLauren Rader

VideographerMegan Reeves

FloristEmerald & Olive

CatererProssimo Ristorante

BartendersFig & Foundry

RentalsParty Perfect and Marianne’s

BandKing Cabbage Brass Band

HairChelsea Bergin

MakeupMegan Prater

Wedding DressNetta BenShabu at Jaxon James

ReceptionDress Kate Willa

Groom’s SuitDon Morphy

RingsKeyzar

StringsErica Parker

LightingLIT Landscape Lighting

Furniture and DecorStay Gold Event Rentals

source: people.com