Dave Grohl's Wife Jordyn Blum Still Not Wearing Ring After Scandal: Marriage 'Not in Great Shape' (Exclusive Source)

Mar. 15, 2025

Dave Grohl and Jordyn Blum.Photo:John Shearer/WireImage

John Shearer/WireImage

Though the dust has settled a bit sinceDave Grohl’s headline-making revelation last month, his marriage toJordyn Blumis still “not in great shape.”

It’s been five weeks since theFoo Fightersfrontman, 55,announced that he welcomed a child outside their 21-year marriage, and Blum, 48, is still not wearing her wedding ring, a source tells PEOPLE. Grohlhas also been spotted out without his band.

Though Blum has “calmed down” since the “initial shock” of the scandal, the longtime couple is not in a good place, according to the source.

“Their marriage is still not in great shape,” the source says, adding that “she’s not happy with Dave."

“Jordyn’s focused on her girls, their schooling and extracurricular activities,” the source adds of the interior designer, who sharesthree daughterswith Grohl: Violet, 18, Harper, 15, and Ophelia, 10.

And, though the “Everlong” singerretained a divorce attorney before announcing that he welcomed a child with another woman— whom he hasn’t publicly identified — the source is not sure if he and Blum will end up filing or not.

Dave Grohl and Jordyn Blum in 2008.Kevin Mazur/WireImage

A rep for Grohl declined to comment, and Blum did not immediately respond to PEOPLE’s request for comment.

Earlier this month, a source told PEOPLE thatBlum “doesn’t trust” the rocker anymore.

“It’s been rough for her. Her mind is not on her marriage though,” the source said, adding that she “doesn’t trust Dave” right now.

Jordyn Blum and Dave Grohl in 2024.Karwai Tang/WireImage

Karwai Tang/WireImage

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“It’s been hurtful to Jordyn,” the source added.

“I plan to be a loving and supportive parent to her. I love my wife and my children, and I am doing everything I can to regain their trust and earn their forgiveness,” he wrote. “We’re grateful for your consideration toward all the children involved, as we move forward together.”

source: people.com