Demi Lovato Says She Sees 'Growing Old' with Fiancé Jutes: 'I See My Future with Him'

Mar. 15, 2025

Jordan “Jutes” Lutes and Demi Lovato at a pre-Grammys gala in February 2023.Photo:Johnny Nunez/Getty

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Demi Lovatois ready for the future with fiancéJordan “Jutes” Lutes.

The singer, 32, opened up about her relationship with Lutes, 33, in a new interview withTeen Vogue, revealing that she “instantly had a crush” on the Canadian songwriter.

“I live and breathe for our connection,” said Lovato, who uses she/they pronouns.

“Everything I do, I wish I was with him. I see my future with him. I see growing old with him,” they added.

The star — whose directorial debutChild Starhits Hulu Sept. 17 — first met Lutes in January 2022, when they co-wrote Lovato’s song “Substance.” Lutes also shares writing credits on their songs “Happy Ending” and “City of Angels,” all off her eighth albumHoly Fvck.

The couple went public with their romance in August 2022, and wereengaged in December 2023after a “personal and intimate proposal” in Los Angeles, a rep for the singer told PEOPLE at the time.

Demi Lovato.Josefina Santos

Josefina Santos

In their interview withTeen Vogue, Lovato said that the two plan to have children together, but not yet, as they’re “not ready to give up my alone time with [Jordan].”

“I don’t even want to share their faces in pictures on Instagram when they’re born,” they said. “I want them to have that anonymity… I share a lot with the world and I just want some things to be mine.”

The “Skin of My Teeth” singer recently opened up about herconnection with Lutes.

“What makes me happy and brings me peace now are the relationships in my life. I’m an introvert, but I do love to co-regulate with people that are really important to me,” she said. “First and foremost, my fiancé, but my best friends, my family, my dogs… I value and I cherish love so much in my life. It means more to me than anything because that’s really truly what life is about: love.”

Lutes, meanwhile, celebrated his fiancée’s birthday in August with a sweet carousel ofInstagramphotos that called them “my whole world.”

source: people.com