Demi Lovato’s Fiancé Jutes Shares How He ‘Almost Broke Down Crying’ When He Proposed in This Unique Way

Mar. 15, 2025

Jutes and Demi Lovato in 2023.Photo:Alex Goodlett/Getty

Alex Goodlett/Getty

Demi Lovato’sfiancé Jutesis reflecting on a relationship milestone.During an appearance onThe Viall Fileson Thursday, Oct. 10, Jutes spoke about when he asked fellow musician Lovato, 32, to marry him in 2023.“I wrote a song,” said Jutes, 33, of the pre-engagement preparation for Lovato, who uses she/they pronouns. “I’m not a guitar player, but I can kind of play some chords. So it took me like, a week, just to write the chords for this song. And then I wrote a song, and then I practiced it.““Again, I’m not a guitar player, so rehearsing this song ends in ‘Will you marry me?’ was really difficult,” the songwriter added. “I would mess up like three out of four times, so I was like when it comes time to do this like I just got to get lucky and just nail it.“Jutes and Demi Lovato in 2023.Kayla Oaddams/WireImage"I definitely almost broke down crying a few times,” Jutes, whose real name is Jordan Lutes, admitted.To make the big ask, Jutes said that asked Lovato’s team to “set up some stuff and distract her” before he performed, hoping to completely catch her when she wasn’t expecting a proposal. When it came time to propose, Jutes said he was “confident” she would say yes.Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer​​, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.“I knew that she wasn’t expecting it when I did it and that’s why I did it then … I wanted to catch her off guard,” he clarified. “I mean, obviously, we had mentioned like you know wanting to be married and stuff like that.“Lovato and Jutes met in January 2022when they co-wrote the Disney Channel alum’s song “Substance” and collaborated on her albumHoly Fvck.The musicians went public with their relationship in August 2022 and made theirred carpet debutin February 2023. In December 2023, Jutes proposed to Lovato in Los Angeles witha stunning pear-shaped diamond.Demi Lovato and Jutes.Jutes/InstagramLovato previously told PEOPLEin September about how supportive of a partner Jutes is.“You know, I’ve waited my whole life for him and to have him be a part of this just makes it that much more sweet,” Lovato said at the time.“It’s very grounding to have a partner that is so supportive, so loving, so caring,” Lovato added. “And so, you know, it’s very easy to stay centered with him because I just — I love him so much and he treats me so amazing.”

Demi Lovato’sfiancé Jutesis reflecting on a relationship milestone.

During an appearance onThe Viall Fileson Thursday, Oct. 10, Jutes spoke about when he asked fellow musician Lovato, 32, to marry him in 2023.

“I wrote a song,” said Jutes, 33, of the pre-engagement preparation for Lovato, who uses she/they pronouns. “I’m not a guitar player, but I can kind of play some chords. So it took me like, a week, just to write the chords for this song. And then I wrote a song, and then I practiced it.”

“Again, I’m not a guitar player, so rehearsing this song ends in ‘Will you marry me?’ was really difficult,” the songwriter added. “I would mess up like three out of four times, so I was like when it comes time to do this like I just got to get lucky and just nail it.”

Jutes and Demi Lovato in 2023.Kayla Oaddams/WireImage

“I definitely almost broke down crying a few times,” Jutes, whose real name is Jordan Lutes, admitted.

To make the big ask, Jutes said that asked Lovato’s team to “set up some stuff and distract her” before he performed, hoping to completely catch her when she wasn’t expecting a proposal. When it came time to propose, Jutes said he was “confident” she would say yes.

Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer​​, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.

“I knew that she wasn’t expecting it when I did it and that’s why I did it then … I wanted to catch her off guard,” he clarified. “I mean, obviously, we had mentioned like you know wanting to be married and stuff like that.”

Lovato and Jutes met in January 2022when they co-wrote the Disney Channel alum’s song “Substance” and collaborated on her albumHoly Fvck.

The musicians went public with their relationship in August 2022 and made theirred carpet debutin February 2023. In December 2023, Jutes proposed to Lovato in Los Angeles witha stunning pear-shaped diamond.

Demi Lovato and Jutes.Jutes/Instagram

Jutes/Instagram

Lovato previously told PEOPLEin September about how supportive of a partner Jutes is.

“You know, I’ve waited my whole life for him and to have him be a part of this just makes it that much more sweet,” Lovato said at the time.

“It’s very grounding to have a partner that is so supportive, so loving, so caring,” Lovato added. “And so, you know, it’s very easy to stay centered with him because I just — I love him so much and he treats me so amazing.”

source: people.com