Kyle Richards Gives Separation Advice to Teddi Mellencamp: 'You Have to Tune Out the Noise' (Exclusive)

Mar. 15, 2025

Kyle Richards (left) and Teddi Mellencamp.Photo:Paul Archuleta/Getty

Paul Archuleta/Getty

Kyle Richards' door is always open forTeddi Mellencamp.

In an exclusive sit down with PEOPLE,The Real Housewives of Beverly Hillsmainstay, 55, weighed in on her former costar’sdivorce from Edwin Arroyaveand shared a piece of wisdom based on her personal experiences with a public separation.

“I obviously speak to Teddi all the time,” Richards says, noting that she was aware Mellencamp, 43, had been going through a “difficult” time. “Obviously it’s sad no matter what … And unfortunately I can give some advice for living through this in the public eye.”

Kyle Richards (left) and Teddi Mellencamp.Rich Polk/Getty

TheHalloween Endsactress says the most heartbreaking thing about separations are how they affect the children.

“It doesn’t matter if the kids are little or they’re grown,” she explains, before referencing her own separation from husbandMauricio Umansky. “My girls struggled a lot with our separation even though they’re grown.”

When it comes to any advice she may have for Mellencamp, Richards says, “She can lean on me and show up at my door anytime she wants, no matter what time of night it is.”

(L) Kyle Richards and Mauricio Umansky.Jesse Grant/Getty

Jesse Grant/Getty

“She’s watched me go through this and she knows,” she adds. “So, I think you can just, you just have to focus on your kids … You have to tune out the noise.”

The Bravolebrity recalls back to the headlines and “mistruths” that circulated following the news of her separation from Umansky and encouraged Mellencamp to block out any rumors.

On July 3, PEOPLE confirmed the duo’s decision toseparate after 27 years of marriage. The two share daughters Alexia, Sophia, Portia and Farrah, whom Richards welcomed in a previous marriage.

“Kyle and Mauricio have been separated for a while now but are still living under the same roof,” a source close to the pair shared at the time. “They remain amicable as they figure out what’s next for them and their family.”

As for Mellencamp, the reality star filed to divorce Arroyave after after 13 years of marriage on Nov. 1, just one day before she publicly announced the news on social media.

A week after her filing, Arroyave responded to her petition and requested the court give the former couple joint custody and block Mellencamp’s ability to receive spousal support but award him the same support.

Edwin Arroyave and Teddi Mellencamp.Mindy Small/Getty

Mindy Small/Getty

He further cited their prenup, stating: “The parties' Premarital Agreement sets forth the terms regarding the amount and duration of spousal support to be paid.”

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In herInstagram poston Nov. 2, Mellencampannounced that she and Arroyave were separatingand emphasized the importance of putting their children first through the transition.

“After a great deal of care and consideration, I have made the difficult decision to file for divorce,” the reality star wrote in her statement. “My priority is my children and ensuring that every care is taken with their privacy and wellbeing throughout this new chapter.”

“Making a public statement is not something I wanted to do,” she continued, “But in an effort to protect my family from undue speculation and rumors, I have felt being open, honest, and vulnerable is the best path forward.”

source: people.com