Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre's Relationship Timeline

Mar. 15, 2025

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Lana CondorandAnthony De La Torrehave said, “I do!”

In October 2024, theTo All the Boys I’ve Loved Beforeactress and De La Torregot marriedat the Serra Retreat in Malibu, Calif.

“Being up there in front of all our friends and family, making the ultimate life vow, is a moment we will cherish forever,” Condor toldVogue. “It was such an emotional and joyous occasion. The feeling I could best use to describe it was peaceful and deeply present.”

The couple first met back in 2015 when they connected during an Emmys party. They exchanged numbers, and De La Torre eventuallyproposed in 2022.

“Anthony is my absolute best friend. He’s my person… He’s that warrior that’s been with me every step of the way,” Condor told PEOPLE.

From their red carpet debut to their “timeless and whimsical” nuptials, here’s a look back at the couple’s relationship timeline.

Summer 2015: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre first meet

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The twofirst met at a party for Emmy nomineesin Beverly Hills in 2015, which marked one of Condor’s first big events before her acting debut in the 2016 superhero filmX-Men: Apocalypse.

Oct. 25, 2015: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre go Instagram official

A few months after their first meeting,Condor went Instagram official with De La Torreas she posted a photo of them at a Just Jared party, depicting the actress giving a giant grin as her boyfriend playfully chomped on her cheek.

May 18, 2017: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre make their red carpet debut as a couple

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In May 2017, the duo made their red carpet debut as a couple as they attended the premiere ofPirates of the Caribbean: Dead Men Tell No Tales, in which De La Torre played a young Jack Sparrow.

August 2018: Lana Condor opens up about her relationship with Anthony De La Torre

As Condor gained critical acclaim for her starring role inTo All the Boys I’ve Loved BeforeoppositeNoah Centineo, the actress opened up abouther real-life romance with De La Torre.

Inan interview withUs Weekly, Condor discussed how she and De La Torre have been navigating having onscreen love interests. “It’s definitely been weird for him, but he’s very supportive,” she said. “As actors, it’s been a learning curve as to how to navigate that world when we have romantic costars. If anything, if a girl flirts with him, I’m like, ‘Get it! He’s cute!’ "

She added that De La Torre has one sweet thing in common with her character Lara Jean: he writes her love letters. “He’s done that since we started dating and I keep them all. We try to keep the spark alive!” she said.

January 2019: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre adopt a dog

After doing an interview with puppies for Buzzfeed, Condor ended upadopting one of the dogs. She and De La Torredecided to name the dog Emmy, in honor of theEmmy Awardsparty they first met at.

Feb. 19, 2020: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre release their first duet “Raining in London” together

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In February 2020, the couple released their first-ever duet together titled “Raining in London,” which also marked Condor’s music debut.

“Lana is just amazing,“De La Torre told PEOPLEabout Condor’s musical abilities. “She is so ridiculously talented. She is a powerhouse. Honestly, I look up to her in so many ways. She has really inspired me to grow in my music and grow in how I view myself.”

Aug. 30, 2020: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre celebrate their 5th anniversary

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On Aug. 30, 2020, the duo celebrated their 5th anniversary with two adorable tributes on Instagram.

“5 years with the man of my dreams,” Condor wrote alongsidea photo of her hugging De La Torre. “You are still my most favorite person in the world. You are my best friend. You have taught me how to love and to be loved, to forgive and to grow, to never give up, to be each others teammate and cheerleader. You make me laugh like no other and it doesn’t matter where we are in the world, as long as I’m with you, I’m home. I love you @anthonydltorre happy anniversary. Let’s cuddle.”

Meanwhile,De La Torre reflected on their first datewhen they went to seeThe Gift. “While the plot of the film in no way represents our life, the name of the movie couldn’t be more fitting to what you are,” he wrote. “The greatest gift I’ve ever been blessed and entrusted with. From our tiny ass apartment with a blow up twin mattress to riding horses in Kenya, it has always been an adventure 🤪 Thank you for changing my life, inspiring me to grow, and making everything worth it. I love you, my tiny burrito 🌯♥️”

“I’ve been in a pretty serious relationship for five years now, and whenever I travel I have to leave him. I always have a lot of anxiety about going off and leaving my home,” she said. “I had just written down this journal entry about my feelings of going back to work as things start to shoot again, and my anxieties about leaving my boyfriend and about starting life up again, especially in this insane year that we’ve been having.”

Dec. 4, 2020: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre release “No Way” together

In December, the couple joined forces yet again as they released a song titled “No Way.” The sweet music video shows the couple hanging out at home with their dog Emmy as they cuddle up on the couch.

Feb. 13, 2021: Anthony De La Torre supports Lana Condor ahead of the finalTo All the Boysfilm

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“Lana, you have never been more beautiful than right now. Not only have you not changed in the course of the last 3 years, but the best aspects of you have only grown,” he wrote. “You deserve this and so much more. You are the hardest worker in the room. Watching how much you’ve poured yourself into your work the last few years has inspired me more than you’ll ever know. Now it’s time to relax and do nothing for a few days 😍I love you.”

February 2021: Lana Condor opens up about how Anthony De La Torre has supported her

In an interview with PEOPLE,Condor opened up about her body dysmorphia, and howDe La Torre gave her a safe spaceto talk about her struggles.

“He has really let me open up and made me feel comfortable talking about it,” she said. “Because I really have not been very comfortable talking so openly about my mental health struggles, but he’s been the person who’s been like, ‘Let’s talk through this. There’s no shame behind it.’ He has helped me so much in creating a safe space where I feel I can actually talk about anything and everything that is going on in my head and in my body.”

Feb. 24, 2021: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre release “Anyone Else but You” together

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In February 2021, Condor and De La Torre released another duet together titled “Anyone Else but You.” Inan Instagram post, Condor explained that the song was “about how [they] met and became tiny little lover munchkins.” The sweet music video for the song also shows them exchanging love letters, a nod to the beginning of their relationship.

Dec. 19, 2021: Lana Condor supports Anthony De La Torre ahead of his music release

As De La Torre prepared to release his new single “Seasons,“Condor shared a sweet tributepraising his musical talents. “Thank you for always inspiring me every day,” she wrote on Instagram. “Your dedication to your art, your vulnerability, your deep devotion to wanting the world to be a brighter place everyday, has me in awe constantly.”

Jan. 28, 2022: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre announce their engagement

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On Jan. 28, 2022, Condor made the exciting announcement thatshe was engaged to De La Torre. “Saying YES was the easiest decision I’ve ever made,” she captioneda handful of engagement photos on Instagram. “I consider myself the absolute luckiest woman alive to live in your sphere. Aside from my father, without a doubt, you are the greatest man in the world.”

March 23, 2022: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre make their red carpet debut as an engaged couple

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A few months after their engagement, Condor and De La Torre attended the premiere of her HBO Max filmMoonshot, where the actress proudly showed off her ring.

March 2022: Lana Condor opens up about wedding planning

During an interview with PEOPLE,Condor opened up about her engagement to De La Torre, noting how she was “very, very very excited” to tie the knot.

In a separate interview with PEOPLE,Condor opened up about wedding planningand how she and De La Torre are taking things one step at a time.

“Growing up, I knew I always wanted to get married and have a beautiful wedding but I wasn’t, like, Pinterest-ing or figuring out every detail,” Condor says. “Anthony and I are both pretty go with the flow. So as we plan, we’re just going with what we feel in the moment.”

She added that she is especially stoked for the moment their ceremony gets underway. “I’m most looking forward to seeing [De La Torre] as I walk down the aisle,” she said. “I’m [also] really looking forward to my dad walking me down the aisle. I’m already crying about that.”

April 5, 2022: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre release “No One Can” about their engagement

May 2022: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre reveal how they’re planning for their wedding

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In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE, the couple discussed their new Amazon Handmade wedding collection and howthey’re prepping for their upcoming nuptials.

“We definitely don’t plan on doing the long engagement mainly because we’ve been together for so long. We’re like, ‘Let’s do this,'” Condor said. “But I will say that we’re in the process right now of wedding planning.”

May 11, 2022: Anthony De La Torre wishes Lana Condor a happy birthday

De La Torre shared a sweet tribute to Condorin honor of her birthday in May. “Happy birthday to this beautiful human being,” a captioned a gallery of images on Instagram. “You are so giving, loving, selfless, adorable, the hardest worker in the room, powerful, sexy, intelligent, inspirational, supportive and every one of us who are in your life are luckier than we know. Happy birthday Angel. Thank you for existing. Also, a HUGE congratulations to God for making someone so dope. You did it Man! Way to go 👏👏”

June 1, 2022: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre take a trip to Disneyland

On June 1, Condor shared a cute photo ofher and De La Torre holding each otherin front of the Disneyland castle.

June 22, 2022: Anthony De La Torre supports Lana Condor at aBoo, Bitchscreening

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December 8, 2022: Lana Condor explains why she and Anthony De La Torre will “probably” push back their wedding

Condor had nothing but good things to say abouther relationshipwith De La Torre during an event in Hollywood Hills. “He makes me feel safe,” Condor told PEOPLE. “I’m curious and adventurous, but I also value safety. I think I felt really safe with him and I felt protected and I felt like I could be myself and be whole with him.”

“I feel the most balanced than I have in such a long time,” the actress added. “I think a lot of it comes from the commitment I made to my partner in becoming his wife and seeing a future and a family with him. I see that so clearly since he proposed.”

TheTo All The Boys I’ve Loved Beforestar also talked about wedding planning. “We are changing our plans in real-time, mainly because we’re in the process of buying a home,” Condor explained. “Weddings are expensive; homes are expensive. It probably will be pushed a little bit, because we’re changing the venue a bit.”

February 4, 2023: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre attend a Grammys event together

Condor and De La Torre stepped out for a Grey Goose Essences event at The GRAMMY Museum in Los Angeles. The couple wore coordinating outfits, with theTo All The Boys I’ve Loved Beforeactress in a black jumpsuit while De La Torre was seen in a black button-down shirt and matching pants.

Condor laterposted about the event on Instagram, sharing a picture of her and her fiancé at the event. “🍸Got all dressed up with the boo to celebrate the Grammys this weekend 🎶,” she wrote in the caption.

June 29, 2023: Lana Condor says she and Anthony De La Torre hope to get married in 2023

The couple’s wedding date hinges on one thing: the renovation of their home.

“We just bought a home together and we’re renovating it,” Condor said during a chat withPEOPLE in 10.“I’m really excited for the home to be finished and for us to actually make a home and have a routine in that home.”

She added: “We’rehoping to get married this year, but it’s contingent on the home being done.”

August 5, 2023: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre attend a Taylor Swift concert

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The couple attended night three ofTaylor Swift’s Eras Tour stop in Los Angeles. Condor wore a white dress and a pink cowboy hat, while De La Torre donned a sweater tank top and black jeans.

October 2024: Lana Condor and Anthony De La Torre get married

Condor and De La Torretied the knotduring an intimate ceremony at Malibu’s Serra Retreat. The actress walked down the aisle in a Vera Wang gown, which she picked out with her late mother,Mary Condor.

The day after the couple exchanged vows, they got matching wedding date tattoos. “This weekend will forever go down as the happiest weekend of our lives,” Condor toldVogue.

source: people.com