Lance Bass and Michael Turchin Went to the Same 2 Halloween Parties Before They Met: 'No One Introduced Us' (Exclusive)

Mar. 15, 2025

From left: Michael Turchin, Lance Bass and their twins Alexander and Violet in Halloween costumes.Photo:Lori Dorman Photography

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Lance BassandMichael Turchin’s love story started on the *NSYNC member’s favorite holiday — even if they didn’t know it at the time.

The pair, who sharetwins Violet and Alexander, turning 3 on Oct. 13, first ran into each other at a mutual friend’s Halloween party. “We have pictures together, but we didn’t really know each other,” Bass, 45, told PEOPLE before a launch event for his first children’s book,Trick or Treat on Scary Street(out now).

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“We have the same best friend circle,” Bass added, which is how he and Turchin, 37, ended up at the same party. “But no one ever introduced us.” At the time, Bass was co-hosting Halloweenie, a charity event. Both were in costume, which Bass says might explain how they didn’t notice each other at the time.

“There’s a big group photo of me and all my best friends and Michael [is] at the end,” Bass explains. “Then, the next day, we’re in different costumes and I have another picture with him, with another friend of mine, just the three of us.”

Bass is a big Halloween fan, often dreaming up multiple costumes for himself — and now his husband and kids — to wear throughout the season. He told PEOPLE he doesn’t remember exactly what he was wearing the first time he and Turchin met. “Usually I just go for the scary, gory stuff,” he says. “But I remember the second one, because it was embarrassing.”

From left: Michael Turchin, Violet, Lance Bass and Alexander practice their trick-or-treating.Lori Dorman Photography

The singer wasn’t planning on going out that night, but he was invited to a friend’s hotel rooftop party at the last minute. “But I didn’t have a costume. And, you know, I take it very seriously,” he explains. “So I went and got my flight suit from my Russian Cosmonaut training. So I went as Lance Bass, in my actual flight suit, which is so cheesy.”

But for a last-minute Halloween costume “it worked,” he says, adding that he put “some little aviators on, likeTop Gun” to really sell the look. “And it fit perfectly.”

It wasn’t until two months after that second party, when Bass and Turchin were introduced at a friend’s birthday party in Palm Springs, that they formally met.

“That was when he was out of makeup,” Bass says, with a laugh. “And I’m like, ‘Oh, who is this guy?’ "

From left: Michael Turchin, Lance Bass, Violet and Alexander.Lori Dorman Photography

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Turchin, an actor and artist who’s originally from Miami, later sent Bass a Facebook poke. “I think it might have been the first Facebook poke I ever got,” Bass says, with a laugh. “And I’m like, oh, that was that was the cute Michael guy … I didn’t think he liked me, so in my head I’m like, okay, I need to become best friends with this guy.”

“So I get over the attraction,” Bass explains. “We spent every day together as best friends for two months before we knew we liked each other. And then he leaned in for a kiss two months later … and yeah, we haven’t spent really many days apart since.”

source: people.com