Sebastian Stan HintsGossip GirlCostar Leighton Meester Was His First 'Serious Love': 'Life Seemed Simpler'

Mar. 15, 2025

Sebastian Stan and Leighton Meester.Photo:Getty(2)

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Sebastian Stanis looking back at his first time falling in love.

“It was the first time I was in serious love with somebody,” he shared of experience filming the CW series in New York City. “Walking around the city, seeing these same buildings and streets — life seemed simpler.”

Sebastian Stan and Leighton Meester attend CALVIN KLEIN COLLECTION Hosts PARSONS Fashion Benefit 2009 Pre-Party at Calvin Klein Collection on April 2, 2009 in New York City.PATRICK MCMULLAN/Patrick McMullan

Though he doesn’t directly name hisGossip Girlcostar and ex-girlfriendLeighton Meester, the two dated from 2008 to 2010.

Stan — who played Carter Baizen onGossip Girl— appeared in 11 episodes from 2007-2010.

He’s avoided publicly discussing his relationships over the years, but he spoke highly about Meester during their time together.

“She’s the most interesting, sophisticated, talented and an extremely funny person that I know. She’s really hilarious,” he told reporters about Meester in 2009.

The pair called it quits the following year and Meester, 38, opened up about the break up in aninterview withSeventeen.

“I’ve only had one experience where it was really hard and I was really sad when it ended, but that’s what taught me a lot about myself and love and life — and that’s good,” she shared about her relationship with Stan.

Since then, Stanhas been linked to several of his co-stars, includingJennifer Morrisonand Margarita Levieva, as well asDianna Agronand the Spanish actress Alejandra Onieva.

Most recently, theA Different Manstarspent time withMalignantactressAnnabelle Wallis. They werephotographed holding handsin 2022.

As for Meester, she has been married to husbandAdam Brodysince 2014. They share 7-year-daughterArlo Dayanda sonwho was born in 2020.

Adam Brody and Leighton Meester arrive at Warner Bros. Pictures and New Line Cinema’s world premiere of “SHAZAM!” on March 28, 2019 in Hollywood, California.Morgan Lieberman/FilmMagic

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TellingE! Newsabout her “normal relationshipwith all the good and the hard" in 2023, Meester added that “we just make it work.”

She continued, “We’re super, super lucky, and I think we recognize how lucky we are with one another. We give each other a lot of respect and time and attention and focus. Like, really put our time and energy into a relationship.”

source: people.com