Tarek El Moussa and Heather Rae Young's Relationship Timeline

Mar. 15, 2025

Heather Rae YoungandTarek El Moussawent from building a relationship to building a family.

El Moussa was previously married toChristina Hall— but the twosplit in 2016and finalized their divorce in 2018. They share two kids together:daughter Taylor Reese and son Brayden James.

Keep scrolling for a complete breakdown of Young and El Moussa’s relationship timeline through the years.

July 4, 2019: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa First Meet

While Young and El Moussa both work in the same industry, it was afishing trip with mutual friendsthat brought them together in July 2019. The pair confirmed that their connection was love at first sight. Since they were docked next to each other, Young jumped onto El Moussa’s boat where he then asked her out for drinks, and the rest is history.

July 28, 2019: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa Spark Romance Rumors

Young and El Moussa first sparked relationship rumors afterpictures were capturedof them kissing and cozying up on a yacht at the Portofino Hotel & Marina in Redondo Beach, California during the summer of 2019.

August 8, 2019: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa Go Instagram Official

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Just a month after the couple was spotted kissing, theyconfirmed their relationshipon Aug. 8 with joint Instagram posts.

“It’s official!!!! After more than 3 years on my own, I’m so PROUD to say that this beautiful, sweet and talented young lady is my girlfriend!“El Moussa wrote, alongside a gallery of photos with Young.

“I’ll be honest and say I never thought I would meet someone special in my life after the last three years. Then…out of the blue @heatherraeyoung walked into my life,” he continued. “The first time I saw her smile she ‘did that thing to my tummy’ and I knew right away I needed to get to know her.”

As for Young, her Instagram caption read: “My heart is so full and happy. Sometimes someone comes into your life and you just know they are meant to be there.”

August 14, 2019: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa’s Give Their First Interview as a Couple

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“We’ve been spending a lot of time together… and we just have so much fun,” El Moussa said. “After all the hardships that I’ve experienced, and there are so many ups and downs in life, sometimes having fun is like the best medicine.”

“He’s been very romantic, it’s been very amazing,” Young said. “All happiness and smiles.”

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In January 2020, El Moussa announced on Instagram that he and Younghad officially moved in together— and shared more than one place!

“It’s really fun because we live in two different places!” he wrote. “Our main spot is in Orange Countybut one or two nights a week we stay at our place in West Hollywood!”

“I now have someone to go to bed with and wake up to every day,” El Moussa continued. “The better better part is that person is @heatherraeyoung! I’m one lucky dude!!!”

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In April 2020, El Moussa left the first home that he bought after his divorce and went in on a home with his new love. In just one week, the couple sold his Costa Mesa home, found a new place in Newport Beach, packed up their stuff, and moved — all in the middle of a pandemic.

They wererenting the beach house, and planned to live there for approximately a year until they found their “dream home,” they told PEOPLE at the time.

July 22, 2020: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa Celebrate Their 1-Year Anniversary

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El Moussa and Young celebrated theirone-year anniversarywith romantic Instagram tributes dedicated to each other.

“From the first day I met you, to our first date and our second date when we decided to commit 100% before we barely even knew each other. But we knew what we had was special. We had that butterflies in your tummy, can’t eat, can’t stop smiling soul mate love,” Young wrote.

“I always knew it was out there, I knew I deserved to find it, I had given up hope that you were out there, and then there you were. It was unexpected for both of us and it was a moment that changed our lives forever,” she continued in her post.

In a post of his own, El Moussa penned, “She is incredible in every way possible and most importantly she loves and adores Tay and Bray. @heatherraeyoung I just love you to the moon and back. You are my everything and you complete me. I’d be lost without you.”

July 25, 2020: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa Get Engaged

El Moussa proposed to Young during a boat trip to Catalina Island, California while they were celebrating their one-year anniversary. He got down on one knee in the sand at the Descanso Beach Club and asked for Young’s hand in marriage.

For the proposal, El Moussa also had a neon sign that read “The Future Mrs. El Moussa” in hot pink lettering that shone down on the couple as they ate a post-proposal dinner on the beach.

El Moussa explained to PEOPLE why he decided to propose, saying, “We were sitting on the boat one day and I looked over and she had Taylor in one arm and Brayden in the other arm and all three were cuddling. That was the moment I knew I had to make her my wife and bring her into the family.”

December 2020: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa Talk About Marriage

Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa.Tarek El Moussa/ instagram

El Moussa and Young opened up about marriage when the latter discussed her last name change during an episode of the Dear Media podcastNot Skinny But Not Fat.

“I’m going to be Heather Rae El Moussa. I’m going to drop my last name,” she told host Amanda Hirsch. El Moussa jumped in to add that his fiancée might drop her middle name as well. “We might go Heather El Moussa, because Heather Rae El Moussa, that’s what, four words?” he said.

“It might just be Heather El Moussa. We don’t know yet,” Young agreed, before adding, “I’m excited to be Mrs. El Moussa.”

February 8, 2021: Heather Rae Young Gets a Tattoo Dedicated to Tarek El Moussa

Young solidified her commitment to El Moussa with permanent ink when shedebuted a tattoo honoring her husband-to-be, reading, “Yes sir, Mr. El Moussa” in cursive script.

What was supposed to be a surprise Valentine’s Day gift to her love, resulted in a bit of controversy as she received mixed reviews from her Instagram followers. After deleting the post the next morning, the commenters moved the conversation to anunrelated Instagram poston El Moussa’s feed.

Defending his future wife’s decision, El Moussa replied to a comment saying that he loved the tattoo “so much.” Young seconded his statement in another comment reply, adding, “Proud to be the future Mrs. El Moussa.”

October 23, 2021: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa Get Married

Young and El Moussatied the knoton Oct. 23, 2021 during a ceremony celebrated with friends and family near Santa Barbara, California. Young’sSelling Sunsetcostars were in attendance, as were theFlipping 101host’s two kids, Taylor and Brayden.

“We’re best friends, we’re true soulmates, and our love is so rare and so special,” Young told PEOPLE exclusively. “It’s the love I’ve always dreamed of my whole life.”

El Moussa agreed, saying, “I’m just excited to live this life with her. We’ve got the two babies, we have a family, and we have a very bright future.”

November 2021: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa Appear onSelling SunsetTogether

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December 2021: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa celebrate their first Christmas as a family

In December, the couple started a newreal estate adventure togetherand that same month they celebrated theirfirst Christmas as a happy family.

January 2022: Heather Rae Young Opens Up About Having Kids With Tarek El Moussa

In January 2022, Young opened up about herfertility and egg-freezing journeyon TikTok, while praising El Moussa for his continued support.

Just ahead of Thanksgiving in 2021,the couple saidduring a chat onE! NewsDaily Popthat they are currently “practicing having babies” until the time is right.

“We’re going to freeze embryos first, go from there and then see what happens,” said Young.

April 11, 2022: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa Get Matching Tattoos

“We are so excited to bring viewers into our world to see the ins and outs of our day-to-day lives,” the couple said in a press release shared with PEOPLE.

July 4, 2022: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa celebrate anniversary of when they first met

Young and El Moussa weren’t just enjoying the Fourth of July this year, as the day marked another reason to celebrate. The couple revealed on Instagram that the Fourth of Julymarked the anniversaryof the first day they met three years prior — a milestone they marked with sweet tributes in gushyInstagram posts.

“You know those moments in life that change everything? 3 years ago today I had one of those moments,” Tarek wrote in his post, captioning a photo of the two holding an American flag while on a boat. “I met@heatherraeyoungwhile I was out boating … [and] I remember knowing instantly that I had met the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.”

While that was just the start of the sentimental caption, Young penned her own tribute to her husband alongside candid photos of them from over the years, including a couple of sweet wedding day memories.

“Fireworks any time I’m with you ❤️,” she wrote. “Today’s already a celebratory day but for us, it’s a little extra. Some of you might already know this but 3 years ago on this exact day I met my soulmate. 🥰🤍”

On July 13, the couple exclusively revealed to PEOPLE thatthey were expecting their first childtogether. The happy news came as they were in the middle of in vitro fertilization treatments and had even scheduled a date to implant an embryo next fall.

“It was a huge shock,” Heather told PEOPLE. “We just weren’t expecting this. We had just gone through IVF. We had embryos on ice. We had a plan.” But after the disbelief wore off, theSelling Sunsetstar was elated.

“I think when you least expect it and there’s no stress in your life, the world just brought us what was meant to be. I’m so excited that it happened like this,” she continued.

The mom-to-be also shared various pictures and videos on her Instagram Story as well, including glimpses at the decor featured at the couple’s reveal party.

October 23, 2022: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa celebrate one year of marriage

Young and El Moussacelebrated 365 days as a married couple.

In anticipation of the milestone, theSelling Sunsetstar posted on Instagram a few days ahead of the couple’s actual wedding anniversary.

The following week, theSelling Sunsetstar revealed on Instagram that shechanged her handlefrom @heatherraeyoung to @theheatherraeelmoussa, eliminating her maiden name. “Also peep the name change 👀 just in time for our 1 year anniversary this week ❤️,” she wrote.

Days later, El Moussa posted on their true1-year anniversary, sharing sweet photos from the wedding, including photo of Tarek feeding Heather cake and a sweet snap of the two dancing.

Young told PEOPLE that she asked guests to bring a children’s book inscribed with a note in place of a greeting card.

November 23, 2022: Heather Rae Young opens up about her relationship with Christina Hall

Young spoke with actor and casting director Eliza Roberts andToday’s Jill Martinabout co-parentingwith El Moussa’s ex-wife, Christina Hall.

“I haven’t talked about this much because I’m a very happy, positive person, but I felt like I was always second,” Young explained.

“No one ever made me feel that way, but I think when your significant other has such a long relationship with the previous spouse and a lot of love — and it was a very public divorce and you’re coming into it. You fall in love with each other, but you always kind of think of the ex. For me, I did,” she added.

TheSelling Sunsetstar continued, admitting that the arrangement “wasn’t always perfect” and said there were “some ups and downs.”

“I think she realized how much I love the kids and that they are number one to me, over anything. So any drama aside, the kids are the most important thing to all of us,” she said.

December 6, 2022: Tarek El Moussa and Heather Rae Young attend the People’s Choice Awards

Selling Sunsetwas nominated for a People’s Choice Award. So, the very pregnant mom-to-be and El Moussa drove up to Los Angeles from Orange County, California to attend the show with her costars.

“Bringing our boy onto the carpet tonight,” the reality star captioned a photo of the couple on her Instagram Story.

January 31, 2023: Tarek El Moussa and Heather Rae Young welcome their first child together

The couple introduced their little one to the world with a joint Instagram post, but they didn’t reveal his name or face.

February 27, 2023: Tarek El Moussa and Heather Rae Young share behind-the-scenes photos from the set of their new show

El Moussa and Young posted photos on Instagram from the set of their new show,The Flipping El Moussas, ahead of the show’s premiere date.Tarek shared snapsof the couple in front of the camera along with a caption that expressed his excitement for the new show. “We really took our flips to the next level on the Flipping El Moussas and I can’t wait for you guys to see how they turned out 🔥,” he wrote in part.

Meanwhile, theSelling Sunsetstarposted a cute picture of her and El Moussaposing together as well as a silly shot of her holding a felt shark head up to her husband’s head. “Lucky to have the best house flipping teacher in the whole flipping world 🤍😆,” she wrote in the caption.

July 26, 2023: Tarek El Moussa and Heather Rae Young confirm season 2 ofThe Flipping El Moussas

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Young and El Moussa announced the second season ofThe Flipping El Moussason Instagram. “Ready for round 2??!” Young captioned a photo of herself and El Moussa wearing painter’s coveralls.

October 23, 2023: Tarek El Moussa and Heather Rae Young celebrate two years of marriage

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In honor of theirsecond wedding anniversary, Young penned a sweet post on Instagram about her husband.

“You have stayed true to the vows that you said to me two years ago: you have loved me for all that I am, you have protected my heart and put our family first,” she captioned a series of never-before-seen wedding photos. “I said it on our wedding day and I’ll say it forever: Life without you would be unimaginable. I love you more than words. Thank you for your loyalty.”

El Moussa also posted about his wife, writing, “Before Heather, I really lived a different life and I know a lot of you can relate. I was honestly just sad and lonely without her. It was her who brought me back to life. It was her who taught me to love myself and others again. It was her who made me believe I deserved more. It was her who gave me hope.”

February 6, 2024: Heather Rae Young praises Tarek El Moussa’s bookFlip Your Life

On publication day, Young praised El Moussa for being “really vulnerable” in his book,Flip Your Life.

“I’m just so proud of everything you’ve been able to accomplish,” she wrote on Instagram. “This book not only teaches you about real estate but it’s also the story of Tarek’s very personal life that includes things like his struggles, cancers, divorce, addiction, business struggles, and more.”

July 30, 2024: Heather Rae Young says she and Tarek El Moussa “stress each other out” while traveling together

In an Instagram Stories post she shared from their family’s Caribbean vacation, Young admitted that traveling with her husband isn’t all smooth sailing.

“Tarek and I arenot the best travelerstogether I’d say. We always stress each other out,” she said. “And then we recover pretty quick, but there’s always like that… tension moment. I’m gonna work on it though.”

October 23, 2024: Heather Rae Young and Tarek El Moussa celebrate three years of marriage

Tarek El Moussa and Heather Rae Young in 2024.Roy Rochlin/Getty

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The couple celebrated their third wedding anniversary with atrip to Mexico. While there, they spent time “reflecting” on their life together thus far.“Together, we’ve grown into healthy versions of ourselves—mentally, emotionally, as partners and individuals. I’m so proud of how we lift each other. Our love is beautiful, we are truly best friends,” Young shared onInstagram.

source: people.com